ladies, this is for you, in case you did not know, get the memo, or believe: you do not have to do anything other than be you, have it all figured out, or be 99% perfect by a certain age, milestone, or general formula no matter what the media, magazines, self help books, or well meaning/concerned family and others say!
it is, however, ok to: say NO without explanation, quit your job, change your major, career, or mind; do you, be you (who ever that is) and own it. be true to yourself, because:
YABJAYA (You Are Beautiful Just As You Are)!
there is only one you, so be that, and nothing more, because that is enough. the rest is irrelevant!
you now have permission, not from me, but from you…you are now free to be!